A BIG Thank You, a Few Notes, and Cheryl’s Blueberry Cupcakes with Lemon-Tea Infused Frosting


For all of you that clicked over to my post on Frosting for the Cause this week to read my story about my sweet sister Cheryl, THANK YOU!! Yep, your efforts are worthy of all caps with two exclamation points.  When I started Comfortably Domestic, I had no idea that I would meet some of the kindest, most supportive, and inspiring people on the planet. I am humbled that you guys come back to read my little blog day after day. I feel honored to call you friends.

THANK YOU Everyone!! (Again, with the caps and exclamation points.)

I promise that this is the last that you will hear about my blueberry cupcake recipe (this week.) 😉 I know all y’all have read it. You know that I hope you’ll try it.

BUT! What I didn’t mention is that you can adapt this recipe to make a strawberry cake by substituting fresh strawberries for the blueberries in the puree! OR use a cup of homemade jam and skip the puree all together.  You do not, however, need to frost the strawberry cupcakes with neon pink frosting. It’s what happens when red food coloring gets a little rebellious. ‘Just thought you should know.


Comfortably Domestic Note: I originally wrote the story of my sister in 2011 for a movement called Frosting With a Cause. Since the movement is long over, I’ve included the story here with the recipe. –Kirsten

Growing up an only child, I always wished for a brother or sister.  I yearned for the bond that siblings share; to have someone that would always be my buddy, ally, and friend. Finally, at age 14, I was blessed with a brother. Thrilled isn’t a strong enough word to describe the feeling I had when my Dad called me in the middle of the night to give me the joyous news: I had a brother! I couldn’t have asked for anything more, and yet two years later, I was blessed again– with a sister.  I wasn’t bothered in the least that I was so much older than they were, or that we lived two hours apart.  I didn’t care that they were my “half” siblings. What is half a sibling, anyway? They were all mine. I had siblings, and we had a lifetime ahead of us to get to know each other.

Chris and Cheryl 5 and 3edited

By the age of 20, my siblings and I were definite buddies. I saw them as often as I could during my first two years of college. I picked them up for overnight visits at my house, and spoiled them rotten. I looked forward to watching them grow up, go to college, get married.  My brother was the moon and the stars to me. My sister was my little ray of sunshine. Her smile could light up a room.

Helicopter Pilotedited

I talked to my dad often, so I thought nothing of him calling me late one night. We had just had the largest snowstorm our state had seen since I was in kindergarten.  So much snow fell so fast, that the weather forced my state university as well as local freeways to close. I figured my Dad was calling to see how I was weathering the storm.

The minute I heard his voice, I knew this was a different kind of call.  He told me that my younger sister Cheryl had a touch of the flu, but became unresponsive during the night.  The rushed her to the local emergency room and were told that she had suffered a stroke.  A stroke?! That diagnosis didn’t make any sense. She was 4 ½ years old! As it turned out, my sister had leukemia.  Her body had released a massive amount of white blood cells that congregated near the base of her brain, causing the stroke.   Dad said the doctors were cautiously optimistic that she would pull through. I immediately ran out of the house with my car keys in hand. Then I froze. The roads were impassable. I wasn’t going anywhere. I called my Dad back and told him that I couldn’t come. He promised to keep me updated.

The next morning I was determined to drive the 140 miles that separated me from my sister and family. I was heading out the door when my Dad called with an update.  He was sobbing. My sweet little sister was not going to pull through after all.  I was stunned.  She was kept on life support long enough for the family to get there. I was able see my sweet sister one more time, braid her hair, tell her how much I loved her.  Cancer had taken her from us so suddenly, without giving us the chance to fight back.

Cheryl 4th birthday 1991edited

My sister Cheryl would have been 24 years old this year.

In retrospect, I am glad that if cancer was meant to take my sister, that it did so quickly.  She did not suffer.  She went to a better place, pain-free, and surrounded by her extended family who loved her.  I couldn’t have asked for more grace for her.

When I first heard of Frosting for the Cause, I knew that I had to be a part of it.  I know that if we had been given the opportunity to fight my sister’s leukemia, we would have fought valiantly and tirelessly until she was cured.  Therefore, I chose St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital for my donation.  St. Jude does extensive research into childhood cancers, and no child is ever denied treatment due to their family’s inability to pay.  I pray that my donation contributes to another family winning the battle with childhood cancer.

I developed this recipe in honor of my sister Cheryl–our little ray of sunshine. A girly girl who loved dresses, tulips, and blueberries.


Cheryl’s Blueberry Cupcakes with Lemon-Tea Infused Frosting

For the blueberry cake, you’ll need: cake flour, fresh blueberries, granulated sugar, milk, eggs, salt, vanilla extract, and baking powder.  I find that using in-season blueberries gives plenty of blueberry flavor, and a nice, natural purple hue to the batter. If you prefer a brighter color, a few teaspoons of blueberry gelatin can be added for color. (I never add gelatin, but some may prefer more vibrantly colored fruity cakes.)

I wrestled for months trying to figure out a way to infuse an intensely blueberry flavor into the batter, which would result in a distinctly cake-like flavor, as opposed to a blueberry muffin.  In the end, my brother came up with the idea to make a blueberry sauce, much like you would make a cranberry sauce.  Genius! Kind of fitting that my brother was the one to solve my flavor dilemma, eh?

Make a blueberry sauce by combining the blueberries, 1/4 cup of the sugar, and a little water into a small saucepan.

Bring the mixture to a boil over medium heat. Stir again.

Upon initial boil, the blueberries will begin to burst open, much like cranberries do when making cranberry sauce.

Allow the blueberry mixture to boil for 5 minutes, stirring constantly. The blueberry sauce will be a deep purple color, and most of the berries will have burst open.

Pour the hot blueberry sauce into a blender, and puree for 3 to 5 seconds.

Allow the blueberry puree to cool to room temperature before beginning to make the cake batter.

Once the blueberry puree has cooled, preheat the oven to 350° F.  Cream the butter and sugar together until fluffy.

Add the eggs, one at a time, mixing until well incorporated between each addition. Stir in the vanilla extract.

Measure the cake flour, baking powder, and salt into a fine mesh strainer set over a large sheet of waxed paper (or parchment paper.)

Sift the dry ingredients through the mesh strainer onto the waxed paper.

Add about a third of the flour mixture to the creamed mixture, stirring until blended.

Gradually pour in half of the milk, mixing until fully incorporated. Then mix in another third of the flour mixture, then the rest of the milk, and finally, the last of the flour mixture until batter is well blended.

Pour one cup of the cooled blueberry puree into the batter, stirring until the puree is fully incorporated into the batter.

The blueberry cake batter is such a pretty shade of purple!

Pretty cake batter deserves to bake in pretty cupcake liners. I’m positive that my sister would have loved the pink plaid! She was very girly. Line 30 or so muffin cups with cupcake liners.

Fill the cupcake liners 2/3 of the way full with batter, being careful not to over-fill, or cake will rise over the liners and onto the pan during the baking process.

Bake cupcakes in the preheated 350º F oven for 18-20 minutes, or until cupcakes are set.  A toothpick in the centers should come out clean.  Cool cupcakes for 3 minutes in the pans before carefully transferring to a wire rack to cool completely.

While the cupcakes are cooling, make the frosting. I chose a lemon tea-infused cream cheese frosting for the cupcakes because tea has always been very calming to me.  Besides–lemons and blueberries were made for each other!  And this frosting? Makes these cupcakes! So stay with me here–this frosting is not as complicated as it sounds.

You’ll need powdered sugar, Celestial Seasonings Lemon Zinger tea, butter, vanilla extract, and cream cheese.  I used Celestial Seasonings Lemon Zinger tea because it has a very strong lemon flavor that I knew would shine through the cream cheese and powdered sugar.

Put the butter in a microwave safe bowl, and place it in the microwave. Heat the butter on 60% power for 50-60 seconds, or until butter is just melted. (This can also be done in a saucepan.)  Submerge 3 tea bags into the melted butter, and continue heating in the microwave for 5 minutes, on 20% power. Remove the bowl from the microwave and allow the tea to steep in the hot butter for 3 more minutes. (Or simmer in the saucepan over low heat for 5 minutes total.)

Squeeze the tea bags to wring out any butter that was absorbed.  Don’t be shy! We want all the flavor squeezed right out of those tea bags and into our butter.

The deep amber color reminiscent of sun spots is the tea infusion.  Taste a bit–it’s wonderful!

Allow the infused butter to cool to room temperature and re-solidify.

Blend the room temperature infused butter and cream cheese together in a large bowl.

Mix in the powdered sugar, one-half cup at a time, until smooth.

Add a dash of vanilla extract, and stir to combine.  (I used clear vanilla so that it wouldn’t tint the frosting a slight beige color.)  This frosting has a very soft consistency. If you prefer a stiffer consistency, add more powdered sugar one-half cup at a time, until the desired consistency is reached.

By now the cupcakes should be cool, and ready to frost!

I find that it is much faster to frost a bunch of cupcakes with a piping bag.  Scoop about a third of the frosting into a piping bag, fitted with the tip of your choice.   I was kind of going for a blueberries and cream feel for these cupcakes, I used an circular shaped open tip to give the frosting a soft and creamy look.

Pipe frosting onto the cooled cupcakes, refilling the piping bag as needed.  Now the cupcakes look dreamy all on their own, but since blueberries and cream was the theme, I thought I could do one better.

So I added a few blueberries to the top. Much better!

Thank you for letting me share the story of my sister here on Frosting for the Cause. I hope that these cupcakes make you smile. :)


Cheryl’s Blueberry Cupcakes


Makes 30 Standard Size Cupcakes

For Blueberry Puree:

1 pint (2 cups) fresh blueberries

¼ C. granulated sugar

4 Tbs. water

For Cake Batter:

½ C. unsalted butter, softened

1 C. granulated sugar

2 ¼ C. cake flour

1 ¼ tsp. salt

3 ½ tsp. baking powder

3 eggs

1 tsp. vanilla extract

1 C. + 2 Tbs. milk

1 C. blueberry puree (see ingredients above, method below)

1 recipe for Lemon Zinger Tea-infused frosting

For the blueberry puree:

  1. Place blueberries, sugar, and water into a small saucepan over medium heat.  Bring to a boil, stirring frequently.
  2. Allow the mixture to continue to boil for 5 minutes, stirring constantly to avoid scorching.
  3. Pour hot blueberry sauce into a blender, and puree for 3-5 seconds. (It won’t take long.)
  4. Refrigerate the puree for 30 minutes to cool.

For the cake:

  1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. For cupcakes: line 30 muffin cups with paper liners. Set aside.
  2. In a large bowl, cream butter and sugar together until light and fluffy.
  3. Stir in eggs, one at a time, until they have been well blended.
  4. Sift together flour, salt, and baking powder over a large sheet of parchment (or waxed) paper.
  5. Add 1/3 of the flour mixture to the creamed mixture, mixing to incorporate.
  6. Then, with the mixer running on low speed, slowly pour in ½ of the milk mixture, stirring until blended.  Scrape down sides of bowl, as needed.
  7. Repeat the additions by adding another 1/3 of the flour mixture, followed by the rest of the milk, and ending with the last 1/3 of the flour mixture, stirring well between each addition.
  8. Pour the vanilla extract and cooled blueberry puree into the batter. (The puree must be completely cooled!) Mix on low speed until puree is fully blended into the batter.
  9. Fill the prepared cupcake cups 2/3 full of cake batter using a large scoop.  For best results, use level scoopfuls of batter to avoid overflowing the wrappers when the cake rises during the baking process.
  10. Bake cupcakes in the preheated 350 degree oven for 18-20 minutes, or until the cupcakes are set. A cake tester inserted in the centers should come out clean.
  11. Cool for 2 minutes in the pan before removing cupcakes to a cooling rack to cool completely.
  12. Frost cooled cupcakes with Lemon Tea-Infused Frosting, or your favorite Buttercream.


Lemon Tea-Infused Frosting


Makes About 4 Cups

½ C. (8 Tbs.) butter

3 Celestial Seasonings’ brand Lemon Zinger tea bags (or ¼ C. loose tea)

8 oz. cream cheese, at room temperature

3 ½ C. powdered sugar (or more, depending on desired consistency)

½ tsp. clear vanilla extract

To Infuse Butter:

  1. Melt butter in a small saucepan set over low heat. (Or in a microwave safe bowl for 1 minute on 60% power.)
  2. Submerge tea bags to the melted butter, and continue to simmer over low heat for 5 minutes. (or microwave on 20% power for 5 minutes, then steep for 3 more on the counter.)
  3. Remove tea bags, and squeeze them well to release all butter from the bags. Or if using loose tea, strain tea out of butter by pouring it into a mesh strainer that has been lined with cheese cloth. Squeeze the cloth to get all the butter out of it.
  4. Let butter cool to room temperature. Butter will re-solidify, but remain soft.   Stir the softened butter before using.

To Make Frosting:

  1. Cream together cream cheese and infused butter until fluffy.
  2. Stir vanilla extract into the creamed mixture.
  3. Sift or whisk powdered sugar to aerate.
  4. Stir powdered sugar into cream cheese mixture, 1 cup at a time, until well blended.
  5. Makes enough to generously frost a 13 x 9 x 2-inch pan, 24-28 cupcakes, or an 8-inch layer cake.


  • This makes a soft consistency frosting.
  • For a stiff decorator frosting: add more powdered sugar, ½ cup at a time, until desired consistency is reached.  Be aware that more powdered sugar will dilute the tea flavor of the frosting.
  • Other flavors of tea may be used to infuse the butter.  Fruit or spice tea varieties taste the best.

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  1. says

    These are a must try. I got all weepy at the story about your dear sister. Bless her heart – and yours too!!
    Even when me and my sisters don’t always get along – I’d still be lost without them.

    On a side note – this WeightWatchers thing is going to be excruciating when I’m reading about all of these delicious and sinful baked goods and they are 10,000 points a piece. DANG! *imaginary cupcake noms*

  2. says

    Your blog is a breath of fresh air from the 45th parallel and I’m very grateful for you having shared your story of your beautiful Cheryl and your amazing recipe you created in her honor. Thank you so much for all your efforts, for your sharing and for having baked a difference.

    • says

      Paula–you are too kind. Thank you. And thanks for creating such a wonderful ministry for those touched by cancer to have a vehicle to fight back–even in a small way. I am so grateful to have found you.

  3. says

    Kirsten, I clicked over to read your story about your sister Cheryl. What a heartbreaking story. I’m sure your memories of her are precious treasures…

    And hey, the strawberry variation of the cupcakes sounds super yummy!

    • says

      I’ve never used frozen blueberries, so I don’t know for sure…I might try with thawed frozen berries. I don’t think you’d have to worry much about texture since they will be pureed, but I’d worry about the “freshness” factor of the flavor. I say give it a shot! :)

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